★关系 is the most deeply knowledge for living and making money in china. 关系 stands for EQ and potential human resources available for solving problems. having关系 means you can trust each other. And then it is easy to borrow money, get your goods or get your contract done and the like. Chinese officials possess a big power. You need to bride them to get your issue done. However you can only bride successfully with 关系. Once you have understood 关系 then you have understood china. Actually foreign companies have to establish special public relations to handle this.

★The familiar have to get in touch with each other frequently. Get together to have dinner or go to sing karaoke. Mahjong is a good way to improve关系. Recently farmers around cities have explored lots of places to provide funs to travelers with their own land for vegetable and barren hill. People working in cities could spend weekends there. This is Tours around Frankfurt.

★Don’t be pleased with Chinese’s saying that your are his friend or 哥们. Friend and 哥们 are very common ways of addressing one. It is just as that you have only acquaintance with each other. 好兄弟（good buddies）means you are a real friend. However 知己 could mean that you are the best friend who can share the truth mutually. Of course many people may call some unfamiliar ones as好兄弟 for the sake of interest and flattery. This calls for your wisdom to distinguish.